Sharing Berlin with people I care for

During the last couple of month I have quite often faced the wonderful possibility of showing Berlin to strangers. Time limits were always different as well as the preferences of my friends. So I was challenged to give them an idea of Berlin worth loving in 12, 8 or 5 hours … Quite tough for this rather big and straggling city. Especially considering the fact that it doesn’t fascinate everybody automatically. Once I was really surprised to learn the opinion of a young girl who has spent most of her life in a village in the southern Germany. After having visited Berlin with her schoolmates she wrote me a mail describing the city as “a grey spot”. I was utterly incapable to understand how can a young person screen out the energy and excitement of this city. And most logically I didn’t want that the same happen to my friends.

I guess I did a pretty good job, but I’m not sure it was a complete success. I still keep asking myself if I should rather have brought them to the Kulturbrauerei instead of Sony Centre, to the East Side Gallery instead of the Check Point Charlie or to the “Trattoria Toscana” instead of the “Deponie”. There are no right answers I guess, though I still keep on checking the imaginary list in my head, putting in some new points, reconsidering the old ones and not being able to discard anything, so the list just grows bigger …

To my deep satisfaction all my guests have expressed their desire to come back to Berlin again. And what matters non the less, they helped me to rediscover the city, to see it in a slightly different light. Like one July night drinking cocktails on the Savigni Platz with someone, to whom due to the formal reasons of his short trips only the formal sights had been shown, I was surprised by the “I could never imagine Berlin can feel like Paris” remark. Why is it so, that when hearing a compliment for something you like you get as proud as if the compliment was paid to you personally?

Anyway, I would be grateful for any ideas concerning what’s worth “seeing for feeling”, feeling the very soul of Berlin.